Anilingus: oral sex for advanced

The so-called anilingus, an oral sex practice, is something for the brave. But what exactly is this type of game, for whom is it suitable and what do you have to consider? Bongacams always has an answer for you.

Cunnilingus and blow job, two delights: almost everyone likes it when the partner slowly walks with his mouth from the chest to the pelvis. The anticipation increases the excitement. The tongue will reach our most intimate parts of the body, slide up and down or dive in. Men play with the clitoris, the large and small labia, drive us crazy with ever-increasing circular and stroking movements. And we? Grasp the penis with your hands and slide your mouth up and down like an ice cream, enjoyably circling the glans with your tongue. In between a quick look in the eyes and every man thinks he’s in seventh heaven. Two very different fields of activity, the same delights. But isn’t there something else? A kind of unisex oral sex? Yes! It is called anilingus, also called rimming or rim job, and is enjoying increasing popularity – with a small courage factor.

Anilingus: The exciting pleasure in the unspeakable

More intimidating for beginners, I would describe this type of oral sex as an advanced form of play. On the one hand, rimming requires a lot of experience and, on the other hand, a great deal of trust in the partner on both sides. After all, with our tongue we play around with our tongue in one of the most erogenous zones of the body, but at the same time also the most unspeakable, most shameful: the anus. Yuck, some may think now. Mh, interesting, the other. And why should you do that at all? Lick the anus ?! But if you throw your inhibitions overboard and let yourself be pampered with your tongue or spoiled, you can experience the greatest delights. Because with its many nerve endings, the anus is particularly sensitive to touch.

Hygiene is particularly important

Most expect rather unpleasant smells on the anus, after all it is our excretory organ. But if you’ve ever stuck your nose deep between your partner’s buttocks, you’ve probably had a different experience. Because through the glands, which release a breakdown product of the male sex hormone testosterone in the anal area, it almost smells a little. It’s like the armpit. Freshly washed, the scent can have a very exciting effect on us, unwashed we can only hope that the arms stay down. If we can smell our partner well, we will be happy to sniff the anus. Just try it out unobtrusively if you are already in the area with your nose anyway. Hygiene is of particular importance here, of course: Before extensive licking, you should take a shower or bath and make sure you do not want to stool. The anus itself is a very clean place if it is well cared for from the outside. In addition to condoms, there are also licking sheets for cunnilingus in the area of ​​safe sex. They can also be used very well by cautious lovers for anilingus.

Find the right position and off you go

It is not that easy to reach this hidden place with your tongue. What is the best way to do this? Four positions are particularly suitable. And they are equally suitable for both genders, it’s about unisex. Kneeling on all fours, the recipient presents his or her bottom. The giver can pull the buttocks apart and enjoy the unobstructed view. In the hollow cross, the bottom moves a little higher. Lying on your back is a bit more uncomfortable, because here the person lying down has to pull his or her legs towards the head. And if you prefer to lie on your stomach, you can slide a pillow under the basin to stretch your buttocks up here too. One position is still missing and this is the 69th unisex with equal rights, because here both get their money’s worth at the same time. Now you can start. Surrounded and caressed the rosette with his tongue.

You can circle the center in the shape of individual petals. If you dare, try to insert your tongue a little. This is not so easy, because the anus is a muscle that is normally tight. Of course, the anilingus can also be refined with other techniques. In the meantime, she can stimulate the penis, testicles and perineum with her hand, he clitoris and vagina. Playing with the tongue can also be a wonderful preparation for further anal pleasures. Like the tongue, fingers, sex toys or a penis can then be immersed. Then please think of sufficient lubricant!